Agreeable/Assertive

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Please select habits that apply to you. You can select up to 10 habits, and are required to select at least 2. Be over-inclusive. Don’t worry if some of the bad habit descriptions do not really apply, as you will get to specify the most typical habits later, when you make your final fault selection, prior to writing.

• Avoid conflict even when it is necessary
• Find myself making excuses for other’s inappropriate behavior
• Cannot negotiate for myself very well
• Will sacrifice my own feelings for the comfort of others
• Can bottle up my feelings until I become resentful
• Can be overly sentimental
• Am polite to a fault
• Feel sorry for people who may not deserve it
• Find myself too upset after I have a conflict with someone
• Would probably help me if I could be more competitive
• Am sometimes dominated by other people
• Don’t know how to deal with mean people
• Trust people too easily
• Find myself believing that people are basically good, even when there is evidence to the contrary
• Am loyal to a fault
• Have a hot temper
• Can be indifferent to the feelings of others
• Am not interested in other people’s problems
• Am too suspicious of other people’s motives
• Will charm people to get my way
• Can be detached and cold when others are hurt and upset
• Am quite critical of others
• Don’t generally show gratitude
• Can be vengeful
• Am willing to manipulate others for personal gain
• Infrequently help others
• Insult people
• Can be aggressive and domineering
• Tend to always put myself first
• Could be better at cooperating