Canons of Conduct
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Thomas Jefferson often took the opportunity to advise his children, grandchildren, and others on matters of personal conduct. Over the years he developed a list of axioms for personal behavior. Some seem to have been of his own invention; others derived from classical or literary sources.
Jefferson’s most extensive list is the one he sent to Cornelia Jefferson Randolph , his granddaughter, while she was visiting her older sister and brother-in-law .
A Dozen Canons of Conduct in Life
never put off to tomorrow what you can do to-day.
never trouble another with what you can do yourself
never spend your money before you have it
never buy a thing you do not want, because it is cheap, it will be dear to you.
take care of your cents: Dollars will take care of themselves!
pride costs us more than hunger, thirst and cold.
we never repent of having eat[en] too little.
nothing is troublesome that one does willingly.
how much pain have cost us the evils which have never happen d
take things always by their smooth handle.
think as you please, & so let others, & you will have no disputes.
when angry, count 10. before you speak; if very angry, 100.
Jefferson sent a slightly shorter version of the above list to Paul Clay, the son of his friend Charles Clay, in 1817. He sent a still more refined version in 1825 to John Spear Smith, on behalf of his son Thomas Jefferson Smith. In his 1825 letter, Jefferson listed a “Decalogue of Canons for observation in practical life”:
- Never put off till tomorrow what you can do to-day.
- Never trouble another for what you can do yourself.
- Never spend your money before you have it.
- Never buy what you do not want, because it is cheap; it will be dear to you.
- Pride costs us more than hunger, thirst and cold.
- We never repent of having eaten too little.
- Nothing is troublesome that we do willingly.
- How much pain have cost us the evils which have never happened!
- Take things always by their smooth handle.
- When angry, count ten, before you speak; if very angry, an hundred.
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