The Great Wave off Kanagawa by Katsushika Hokusai

All Is Well in the Great Mess

"That which I have said is only like the few leaves in my hand. And that which I have not said is like the dry leaves in this forest."

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Everyone should sit in meditation for twenty minutes everyday - unless they are too busy; then they should sit for an hour.

Zen Proverb

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If— by Rudyard Kipling

If you can keep your head when all about you   
    Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,   
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
    But make allowance for their doubting too;   
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
    Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
    And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;   
    If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;   
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
    And treat those two impostors just the same;   
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
    Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
    And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
    And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
    And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
    To serve your turn long after they are gone,   
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
    Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,   
    Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
    If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
    With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,   
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,   
    And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

Source: A Choice of Kipling’s Verse (1943)

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“Don’t waste the rest of your time here worrying about
other people—unless it affects the common good. It will
keep you from doing anything useful. You’ll be too
preoccupied with what so-and-so is doing, and why, and
what they’re saying, and what they’re thinking, and what
they’re up to, and all the other things that throw you off and
keep you from focusing on your own mind.

You need to avoid certain things in your train of thought:
everything random, everything irrelevant. And certainly
everything self-important or malicious. You need to get used
to winnowing your thoughts, so that if someone says, “What
are you thinking about?” you can respond at once (and
truthfully) that you are thinking this or thinking that. And it
would be obvious at once from your answer that your
thoughts were straightforward and considerate ones—the
thoughts of an unselfish person, one unconcerned with
pleasure and with sensual indulgence generally, with
squabbling, with slander and envy, or anything else you’d be
ashamed to be caught thinking.”
Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, Book 3, Verse 4 (Gregory Hays)

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“Worry is a misuse of the imagination.”
Dan Zadra

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Ich muss meinem Tag keinen Plan mehr geben

All Is Well In The Great Mess · Ich muss dem Tag keinen Plan mehr geben


Kulturelles Feature „Ich muss dem Tag keinen Plan mehr geben“
Oder: einfach leben!

Von Cornelia Beuel

Anne Donaths Geschichte entwickelte sich wie die vieler Frauen: Abitur, Lehrerexamen, Ehe, drei Kinder, Hausfrau. Heute, sie ist jetzt 58 Jahre alt, ist ihr Leben geprägt von Verzicht: keine Waschmaschine, kein Kühlschrank, kein Strom, kein Telefon, kein Auto.

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“The birds have vanished into the sky,
and now the last cloud drains away.
We sit together, the mountain and me,
until only the mountain remains.”
Li Po

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“Nothing lasts, nothing is finished, nothing is perfect.”
Tenets of Wabi Sabi

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“We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.”
Anaïs Nin

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“If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”
Wayne Dyer

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„Ziehe dich in dich selbst zurück, so viel du kannst; verkehre mit denen, die dich besser machen, und erstatte solchen den Zutritt, die du besser machen kannst.“
Seneca

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“You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back and observing things with magic. True power is restraint. If words control you that means everyone else can control you. Breathe and allow things to pass.”
Warren Buffett

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“If you aim at great things, you must not allow yourself inclination toward the attainment of other things, however slight; but you must entirely quit some of them, and for the present postpone the rest.”
Epicurus

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“Why should I fear death? If I am, death is not. If death is, I am not. Why should I fear that which can only exist when I do not?”
Epicurus

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“In the end what matters most is
How well did you live
How well did you love
How well did you learn
to let go”
Unknown Author

“In the end, only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you.”
Gautama Buddha

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Canons of Conduct

Thomas Jefferson often took the opportunity to advise his children, grandchildren, and others on matters of personal conduct. Over the years he developed a list of axioms for personal behavior. Some seem to have been of his own invention; others derived from classical or literary sources.

Jefferson’s most extensive list is the one he sent to Cornelia Jefferson Randolph , his granddaughter, while she was visiting her older sister and brother-in-law .

A Dozen Canons of Conduct in Life

  1. never put off to tomorrow what you can do to-day.

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